Really Understand Your Partner

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Ask anyone of any sex and it's an undisputable fact; men are from Mars and women are from Venus.  This doesn't make us incompatible though, we just need to understand our partners to keep the fires of passion burning brightly. 

 

Tips For Her

How Women Unknowingly Turn Off Their Partner
Mistakes women commonly make... Why he doesn't feel loved..
1. She tries to improve his behaviour or help him by offering unsolicited advice 1. He feels unloved because she doesn't trust him anymore.
2. She tries to change or control his behaviour by sharing her upset or negative feelings. (It is OK to share feelings, but not when they attempt to  manipulate or punish) 2. He feels unloved because she doesn't accept him as he is.
3. She doesn't acknowledge what he does for her but complains about what he has not done. 3. He feels taken for granted and unloved because she doesn't appreciate what he does..
4. She corrects his behaviour and tells him what to do, as if he were a child. 4. He feels unloved because he does not feel admired.
5. She expresses her upset feelings indirectly with rhetorical questions like "How could you do that?" 5. He feels unloved because she feels she has taken away her approval of him. He no longer feels like the

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