How to Teach A Dog to Stay, Sit Or Come When Asked: The ABC of Obedience Training


Posted on: 20 August 2016 by Samuel Funt

Tips and tricks for teaching your dog basic commands.

Obedience training is very important and should start very early in the puppy's life. All dogs need this in order to learn their place in the pack order. Dogs are very intelligent and can learn a lot of things, like roll over, play dead, fetch the newspaper in the morning or other complex jobs like search and rescue or hunt. But for the beginning, they must learn the basics of listening to their owner's commands.

According to the dog's breed, you may have to use a certain training strategy or another. Some dogs are very patient, while others are not, and some are really stubborn and with a mind of their own. Though, they all need the same thing: a firm, but gentle owner who won't use rough methods. Always keep training sessions fun and reinforce positive behavior with treats and praise.

Below we described the basic commands and how to teach a dog to stay, sit or come when asked.

Teach your dog to come

All dogs must come to their owner when he calls. Most of them do this naturally because they want to keep in touch with their human, but you must make sure they do this whenever you want them to. This would make it way easier to get to leave the dog park without needing to chase your dog around, as well as keep him safe while off-leash.

Here are the steps you need to take:

  • Start at the right time of the day. Your dog should be a bit hungry between meals, but remember never to let him starve. Being a bit hungry would make him more receptive to treats;
  • Choose a quiet place with few to no distractions, especially if you know your pal tends to be less focused;
  • Get a few steps away;
  • Hold a treat in your hand and begin calling your dog. You can tell him "Come" or  "Come  here" in a joyful voice. Immediately begin praising him when he starts moving towards you, but stop as soon as he wanders away;
  • Always reward him as soon as he arrives and then give him about a minute off to play;
  • As soon as he constantly responds the command indoors, take him outdoors and repeat the same steps;
  • When he starts getting the "Come" command right, only reward him occasionally.

What if it's not working?

Never scold your puppy. He may not understand what this "Come here" means, so it's no use. This may even get things worse.

Instead, try calling his name again and begin jogging backwards to encourage him to follow you. During this time, call him again in a joyful tone and keep showing him the tasty treat. Clapping your hands may be useful, as he may see this as a game. Immediately begin praising the puppy as he starts moving towards you.

Teach your dog to sit

This command may be tricky for your puppy to learn or for you to teach him. This is one of the first commands a dog should learn, and will help reinforce the leader - follower relationship between you and him. You must always choose the most suitable method for your puppy's specific breed and temperament.

Here are the steps you need to take:

  • Choose a quiet place with little to no distractions;
  • Wait for your puppy to get a bit hungry and choose some tasty treats that he loves;
  • Show him the treat, really close to his nose, then slowly move it towards the back of his head. He will sit by himself while following the treat;
  • Say "Sit!" in a firm, but gentle voice and immediately reward him with the treat;
  • Try to limit your talking. The puppy needs to understand what you need him to do, so only insist saying "Sit" instead of giving him other commands;
  • Raise him from the sit position by saying "free" or "release" and take a step back and calling him to you;
  • Repeat after a few moments.

When you notice he begins getting the command, only reward him occasionally.

What if it's not working?

Watch out for accidental jumping rather than sitting, or popping out of the position before getting his reward. You may be holding the treat too high, or taking too long before praising him for what he did well. If your dog doesn't sit at all, you may be rewarding him too early.

How to teach your dog to stay

The "stay" command is the other most important command in the starter trio. He must learn to wait until you allow him to do something or go anywhere. This command is also important for you to establish a healthy relationship and teach him who is the leader.

Here are the steps you need to take:

  • Begin with your dog in a comfortable position, like "sit" or "down". Assuming he has just learnt the "sit" command as mentioned above, let's take that as an example;
  • Additionally, teach him the release command like "free", "done" or "release", and use it to mark the end of the "sit" command;
  • After a few moments of sitting reward your dog and clearly say the release command to encourage him to get up;
  • Gradually increase the time between the "sit" command, praise and release. Slowly begin stepping backwards from your dog as you notice he starts holding his position. When he stays after one or two steps, immediately reward and release him;
  • Constantly increase the distance and add the verbal command until he learns it. Once he begins staying constantly, only give him occasional rewards.

What if it's not working?

If your puppy leaves his position, immediately say "sit!" or "down!", depending on the position he was in, then try the same command for a shorter time. When he already know the "stay" command but breaks out of his position, you can try saying "stay!" in a sharper voice, like a reprimand. But never punish your dog, or he would associate this with what he was doing before breaking out.

With a bit of patience, obedience training can be really fun. Dogs need to learn these basic commands in order to be well-behaved and to eliminate further communication issues between you two. Remember to never punish your dog, as most of them would associate it with the command itself and would only make training more difficult. Keep training sessions short and fun, especially because puppies have a short attention span and would hardly focus for more that 10 -- 15 minutes at a time.

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Harriet Simpson posted 27 October 2020

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